A good and positive relationship is what everybody wishes for, to be happy, loved, cherished, valued and appreciated even when you have so little or affluence to offer. That is the dream of every man or woman that is about to commence a solid and lasting relationship that will eventually lead to marriage and even last a lifetime. But just like any other positive or good thing, a fruitfully sweet relationship is not just achieved by mere wishing or driving out in that fancy car of yours and picking up any pretty lady you see waiting for a lift.

To get a good lady there are steps you need to follow just like when you are learning to drive a car for the first time. If you go against the rules of the instructor, you might end up driving off the road, smashing someone’s very expensive car or hitting passers-by and land into the police cell or even prison. First thing to look out for while selecting any partner, female or male is to find out if the person is God fearing. If your answer is yes good but if no, better run for your dear life because these days even lovers and legally married couple kill their partners for silly and stupidly senseless reasons.

How do you know if your partner is God fearing, it’s easy, hard and cunny too. I will give a few examples, if you want to help a good person in need and your partner rebukes you or says no, watch it well. If you want to go to church or mosque and your partner discourages you. A partner who finds it hard to forgive others is bad, he or she may forgive you easily but this is pretence. Another major evil sign is telling lies, though with love and the word of God it can be stopped but if you notice the partner is not willing to change. Don’t hesitate to quit. Apply wisdom too and always stick close to God. There is no better guide than His loving and caring words.