Our lives are almost ruled by the very thought and Assumptions or facts we choose to observe and uphold in our day to day lifes.

Humans are creations of habit, which means that what we allow our minds to conceive bores on us a legitimate heir which stays and determine how our lives would eventually turn out.

Your very, Joy, Sorrow, wealth, Poverty are all aftermaths of what we cultivate and accept in our minds. In other words ” Your thoughts is the very Fuel to the outcome of events in Your Life.

This is a shot description to nail my points.

There is a family living in an estate, a very organized and peaceful family anyone would dream of. Boasting of a hardworking and loving husband and a beautiful loyal wife who worships him like a God. As far as anyone is concerned? They are great and content with their life, till the day they got a new neighbor who moved in with his wife and their car.

The wife of this very family, being a carefree and friendly woman decides to send pancakes as a form of welcome to their neighborhood. On her way into the court, she finds the man and his wife in the car, she observes how he willing came down from the car all smiles, and walked to the side of his wife where he gently and systematically opened the car door, the wife put forth her hand as her husband led her out.

This very woman was so moved and torched that, that very moment she was able to see the very thing she doesn’t have, the very thing her husband wouldn’t do for her no matter how doting she was to him.

Her opinion about her perfect husband changed, from that day she began to detect other errors that weren’t there before.

Time went by, and she continued observing with envy at how often her neighbor would step down to open his wife’s door. This very issue bore so much hole and distance between she and her husband till she couldn’t stand it but file for divorce.

On the day of the hearing, after listing all her queries, she came to the main point, the very smoke which started the fire, the fact that her husband wouldn’t open the car door for her. To cut the whole story shot, afterwards the neighbor had to be present at court by summon and that was when he unveiled the mystery behind his daily task of opening his car door for his wife.

” His Car’s Right front door was faulty, and it only needed his careful tactics to be able to open the door from the outside ”

That very moment this very lady was torn apart in grief.

What do we have to learn from this?

I will say this.

Even when the whole facts is laid out before you, there are still chances of a Truth which is still missing the eye, a little questioning and investigation before reacting could save a deal of ” had i Knows” .

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