With proper pre~thoughts and post~thoughts everyone including no one can achieve a life free of painful regret and self ~blames.. MOST OF OUR REGRETS ARE SIMPLY AVOIDABLE..yes..If only everyone could think before they talk, hardly will non sense be said, or rather if only everyone could think before acting barely will foolishness be displayed.. Mistakes have a strategic manner of blurring our ideals, leaving us in and with a state of perplexity and misdirection.. LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP IS STALE,, today you ought to THINK BEFORE YOU LOOK, THEN YOU FINALLY LEAP.. thinking is an unexplainable power that shapes the entirety of our being, starting from our behavior down to our endeavours,,,, but yet.. THOUGHTS ARE INFLUENCED.. if you allow the negatives to influence your thoughts sooner or later you would have more regrets in your life than happiness.. HARSHNESS RATHER THAN HAPPINESS IS A RESULT OF THOUGHTLESSNESS.. this is how to be a thinker.. Think about YOUR PAST to correct its fault,, think about your PRESENT to do what’s right from those corrections of the past.. Think about YOUR FUTURE to get your self positioned and prepared for it.. In sum.. YOUR PAST DESERVES CORRECTION, YOUR PRESENT DEMANDS PERFECTION, YOUR FUTURE DESIRES PREPARATION.. ALL I’ve just said can only become attainable if you keep thinking deliberately.. Most times we allow our thoughts to control our us,,therefore making us as it wants and not as we want.. YOU’RE TO MAKE YOUR THOUGHTS.. If your thoughts will make you anything it could make you nothing… Lol.. A short-duration video was sent to me my a close friend,,, contained in it, is a mild argument between a father and an enthusiastic but rather unwise young man (his son)who claimed that there isn’t need to call upon an artisan~engineer to see to the electrical fault of a control box, that appeared so complicated,HE CLAIMED HE IS AN ENGINEERING STUDENT.. he actually insisted on thrusting himself towards the panel consisting clusters of n**e wires, when suddenly something funny occurred,,,HE GOT slammed by an electric SHOCK,,his dad heard his seemly Razzle~dazzled voice when he asked.. Did it shock you??? then he repLIED with some sort of dumbfounded, puzzled looks… His foolishness rewarded him.. I guess you know the video in question.. It’s a comedy, but yet,,, almost everyone of us plays the role of that engineering student per time.. Remember someone is also laughing at us in the drama of life… FOOLISHNESS IS COMEDY TO THE VIEWER, BUT TRAGEDY TO THE DOER.. The secret to living without having to regret anything is to think knowingly before acting.. Ask yourself IF I DO IT, WHAT WILL BECOME OF ME